If the parents do not want their children to be a “ life long kid ” , they should warmly welcome their children to enter the period of “ experiencing the sense of adultness ” , help and guide the children to move towards maturation successfully 如果不希望自己的孩子永远是一个长不大的孩子，那么就应当热烈欢迎孩子进入有“成人感”的时期，并帮助、引导孩子顺利走向成熟，成为搏击风雨的雄鹰。
